90 Day Fiancé star Thomas threatens to call off wedding to his woman Paula because she wears perfume and deodorant

Thomas and Paulas upcoming wedding faces uncertainty after the couple had a major argument over perfume and deodorant on the latest episode of 90 Day Fianc Season 12.Paula, 41, moved from So Paulo, Brazil, to Long Beach, California, to be with Thomas, 31, after the pair met while she was visiting Los Angeles. However, their relationship has been strained by Thomas strong sensitivity to artificial scents.The disagreement intensified during a cake-tasting outing ahead of their wedding, when Paula joked about Thomas detailed thoughts on choosing a cake. He said: You should be a writer. You describe it with so much emotions and feeling. You go deep. Like, its just a cake.Later, Paula apologised for wearing deodorant, explaining that the weather was hot and they would be outside for most of the day. Thomas, however, said he was upset because he considers artificial scents a serious issue. He described her deodorant as: The most pungent and obscene thing Ive ever smelled.Thomas said he needed Paula to understand that avoiding artificial scents was a relationship boundary. He said: I really need Paula to come up to speed on this and just accept that this is a boundary that I need in a relationship for us to be together. He also refused to accept her apology, saying she was not taking his concerns seriously. He said: Everything you just said, youre saying to be funny, and news flash, Im not laughing. The couples disagreement continued after Paula revealed that she planned to invite eight members of her family to their wedding, with the relatives staying at their apartment.Thomas objected to the arrangement and suggested they stay in a hotel instead. He said the apartment was too small and criticised Paulas closeness with her family. She said: Paula never cut the umbilical cord from her parents.The argument escalated when Thomas said he would throw away her mothers deodorant if she used it in their home. He explained: I need my apartment to be my safe place where I dont have to be worried about invasive smells that give me an allergic reaction.Thomas also criticised Paulas choice of fragrances. He said: You dont need to have a perfume on to feel normal. And you pick some of the worst artificial smells of all time. Like, I dont know where you find this stuff. Like, its bottom of the barrel worst Ive ever smelled in my life.He questioned why she did not consult him before using scented products. He said: Why dont you ask my opinion and say, Hey, before I spray this, maybe I should consult my fianc, who Im going to be living with for the rest of my life about spraying this to see if hes going to be sensitive to this?Paula accused Thomas of being controlling and said his behaviour made her question their future together. She said: Thomas never lets anything go. Like, hes trying to control every little thing that I do. Hes micromanaged me like a kid and Im not happy at all. She also compared him to a cockroach during the argument.Thomas maintained that the issue was a dealbreaker and told Paula she could choose not to marry him if she could not respect his boundaries. He said: You have the option to not get married with me. You have that option.Paula later told cameras she felt trapped by the relationship dynamics. She said: The way hes managing our relationship and the way hes trying to control every single step that I do, I really dont know if I can commit with this for the rest of my life.The post 90 Day Fianc star Thomas threatens to call off wedding to his woman Paula because she wears perfume and deodorant appeared first on Linda Ikeji Blog.